Think back through your life: at the age of 16 you were not the same person you had been when you were six years old. Nor were you the same at 16 as you later became (or will become) at 26, 36, 46, or 86. Throughout our lives, in different ways, we are always changing.
We are not human beings, we are human becomings.
The people who we try to become, and the lives we try to lead, and the degrees to which we are helped or hindered along the way, are all influenced by the people we find around us and the times we happen to have been born into.
If you had been born into a different century, a different country, or even a different family, you would likely see the world very differently from the way you do now.
But no matter where or when you were born, something about you would remain the same. This is the essence of you. This is the essence of the person, the butterfly, you are trying to become.
The clearer you can get about who this person is — irrespective of what you or your family think you should be — the clearer you will understand where you want to get to and the more energy and enthusiasm you will have for getting there. And in a time of change, this will be invaluable.
We are all human becomings.
And, unlike a caterpillar, we can make that becoming a deliberate, conscious process.
Adapted from Inner Leadership: a framework and tools for building inspiration in times of change.
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