In a world of constant change, events can sometimes knock us off balance. When they do, Inner Leadership provides a range of tools that enable us quickly to recentre and ground ourselves. This is the first step to becoming antifragile.
But even better than learning to recover quickly is learning not to be knocked off-balance in the first place.
The way we do this is by increasing our self-awareness and connection with ourselves. Like a tree putting down deeper roots, the deeper we build our relationship with ourselves the less likely we are to be blown over in a storm. And when times are calm, a deeper self-connection enables us to spread our influence out like branches into wider challenges and roles.
There are four main ways we can achieve this deeper self-connection:
“Exercise,” says John Ratey, psychiatrist at Harvard Medical School, “is the single best thing you can do for your brain in terms of mood, memory, and learning. Even 10 minutes of activity changes your brain.”
Mind and body are one system. We hold snags and tensions from our minds in our bodies. So shifting the body is an effective way to shift and free the mind. As just one example, Richard Branson says he gets four more productive hours each day from a range of workouts that include swimming, rock climbing, running, weightlifting, and yoga.
In a changing world, the ability to innovate becomes essential for everyone. Innovation is applied creativity, so developing your ‘creative muscle’ will strengthen your ability to innovate.
Engaging with the arts is a powerful way to experiment with new ways of seeing the world, new forms of solution. Choosing the right creative form for you will also recharge your batteries at the same time.
Steve Jobs, co-founder and CEO of Apple, was well known for practising Zen Buddhism. He said, “Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.” Meditation connected him with that voice.
Science has since shown that meditation and other forms of mindfulness also increase our ability to concentrate and to manage our emotions. Gandhi used meditation to bring down an empire, non-violently.
All three of these approaches can be combined with the fourth approach, which is:
- Spending time in Nature
Any form of contact with nature can be beneficial but visits to hills or large bodies of water can be especially beneficial. In Japan the benefits of ‘forest bathing‘ are also well known.
The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we have. It is the only one that lasts our entire lifetime and it affects the quality of every other relationship we have. This means that the relationship we have with ourselves directly limits or expands the results we can achieve in the world.
Using these four ways to build your relationship with yourself will also increase your clarity, focus, productivity, enthusiasm, confidence, and joy. And they will take you another step along the journey to becoming antifragile.
How strong is your relationship with yourself today? How are your relationships with other people? Would you like to improve these relationships and/or the results you achieve in the world? Do you feel drawn to spending more time in exercise, creativity, meditation, or nature?
Adapted from Inner Leadership: a framework and tools for building inspiration in times of change.
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(And remember: you don’t learn to swim by reading about swimming, you also have to practice.)