A strong anchor keeps you stable in the storm

When you find yourself facing a crisis do you tend to freeze, fight, or take flight? Or do you remain centred, calm, and focused on the present moment?

People who are antifragile, people with strong Inner Leadership skills, start by first Centring and Grounding themselves to reconnect strongly with who they are at their best.

Then they can bring their best skills and abilities to bear to address whatever the situation is.

The simple technique that Inner Leadership recommends for grounding ourselves is called Anchoring.

Here is a summary of three steps you can use to create a strong anchor*.

1. Remember a Time…

To build a strong anchor, start by remembering a state that you would like to be able to recall at will: a time when you felt fully alive, in flow, operating to the maximum of your ability.

What do you remember best about that state? Where were you? What were you doing? Who were you with? What were you working to achieve? How did you feel? How was your body positioned? What did it feel like to be so grounded? Could you see, hear, taste, smell, or feel anything special?

Now stand or sit in the way you were then and recreate the experience as fully as you can.

2. Choose an Anchor

To ground yourself quickly you want to be able to recall that state at will.

It won’t always be possible to recreate this exact position so, instead, you need to learn to associate or Anchor it with something else.

One way to do that is to associate your feeling of being grounded with a key word, name, or image: perhaps the word ‘Ground’ or ‘Lincoln’ or the image of an ‘Oak Tree’.

If this works for you, take the time now to choose such a word or image.

Alternatively you can create a physical anchor that you activate by touching a certain part of your body — for example bringing your fingers together or touching your chin.

To create a physical anchor, first choose a part of your body (your chin, ear lobe, a fingertip, …) and then touch that with another part of your body: a finger or thumb or perhaps hold it between your thumb and forefinger. Bringing together the two parts is what forms the anchor. Choose something that other people won’t notice.

3. Recall that State at Will — Practise

Now return to your best feeling of being grounded, the one you want to be able to recall at will, and make that feeling as strong as you can. At the same time set up your chosen anchor: touch the part of your body in the way you have chosen (or focus on the key word or image).

Then release the anchor, move out of position, and let the feeling go.

After a few moments return to your highly grounded state and re-initiate the anchor. Repeat until the anchor becomes associated with the feelings of groundedness. (This might require practice over a few days.)

The stronger you build this anchor, the more strongly and quickly you will be able to return to this state at will and the more easily you will be able to draw upon your best skills and qualities in any situation.

This is part of the first step of becoming antifragile.

Can you remember a time when you were operating at the maximum of your potential, fully alive, in flow, unstoppable? Would you like to be able to recreate that state at will?

* There is a fuller description of how to create and strengthen your anchor in the book.

Adapted from Inner Leadership: a framework and tools for building inspiration in times of change.

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